GoodK wrote:
Your posts keep changing... I liked the Gamen quote :)
I thought you might. I don't quite feel that cynical, anymore, so I deleted it. Yet, there was a time when it fit quite well. Now I'm sort of to the point where I recognize that falling in love and being in love -- love in general -- is as close to magical that I will ever experience as a human. It's just part of the human experience and I wouldn't take back the ecstasy or the distress. There's a crispness of passion felt in each.
Yet, for you, here it is again:
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”