September 2014 Mr Christofferson:
It is not a question of love. We can and must love one another as Jesus loves us. As He said, “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:35). So although familial love continues, relationships may be interrupted and, according to the circumstances, even support or tolerance at times may be suspended[/b] for the sake of our higher love (see Matthew 10:37).
https://www.lds.org/study/ensign/2016/0 ... e?lang=eng
April 2019 Mr Soares
It is hard to understand all the reasons why some people take another path. The best we can do in these circumstances is just to love and embrace them, pray for their well-being, and seek for the Lord’s help to know what to do and say. Sincerely rejoice with them in their successes; be their friends and look for the good in them. We should never give up on them but preserve our relationships. Never reject or misjudge [/b]them. Just love them!
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/ ... s?lang=eng
The frequent doctrinal u-turns between Apostles (see Name Of The Church and November Policy for other recent examples) suggests the left and right hands of Church Leadership are unfamiliar with each other, and strongly suggests there isn’t a single, consistent, foresighted leader directing matters.
Constant inconsistency is not the hallmark of a reliable, trustworthy source of guidance.