Bednar, your parents splitting up is because they're lazy.

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Bednar, your parents splitting up is because they're lazy.

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Other times he perceived questions that members may have, such as a moment with nearly 800 missionaries in a Mexico Missionary Training Center devotional. Elder Bednar counseled about the devastation some young people have as they watch parents struggle to honor their temple-marriage covenants.
“These young people think to themselves, ‘If marriage did not work for my mom and dad, who were sealed in the temple, how is it going to work for me?’ ” said Elder Bednar.

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Really? That's a key question in the minds of 800 missionaries? Or is he setting up a question he wants to answer?

He answered with a pointed message: “You do not find the marriage you hope to have, you create it. As an agent, you create the relationship, the family, and the happiness you hope to have.”
What does that even mean to 800 missionaries? If your parents split up it's because they didn't act as agents and create the relationship, the family, the happiness? I think he's being sneaky here. Mormon Temple sealed marriages tend to hit the rocks when one or other of the partners discover the truth and change their belief about the Church and the other partner makes a change of belief a deal breaker. He's talking out of his expensively clad ass.

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Why is Bednar always stand8ng so close and getting so touchy-feely with the people he calls up? Its very uncomfortable to look at, let alone how it must feel to experience it.
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Lemmie wrote:Why is Bednar always stand8ng so close and getting so touchy-feely with the people he calls up? Its very uncomfortable to look at, let alone how it must feel to experience it.


Holland does the same thing. Maybe this is an outgrowth of the frustration they must feel in waging a losing battle?
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I point my finger at you, admonish you, condemn or bless you, and everything is on the condition that you obey the apostles & prophets as if they are the Lord speaking to you -- and above all, do not masturbate or the Lord's blessings are revoked and you have no promise.

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Say goodbye to Shulem. I'm leaving the terrestrial board and going down below where I belong.

Goodbye everybody.
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Shulem wrote:Say goodbye to Shulem. I'm leaving the terrestrial board and going down below where I belong.

Goodbye everybody.

It's not a good-bye! I read your posts regardless of where someone else thinks they should belong, so don't feel like you are alone. :cool:
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Shulem wrote:Say goodbye to Shulem. I'm leaving the terrestrial board and going down below where I belong.

Goodbye everybody.


Shulem, life had just begun. And now you've gone and thrown it all away.
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Shulem, I will still read your posts wherever you are on this board. I am always reminded of your thread about Jesus' blood sacrifice. I loved the picture of Pope Benedict and blood coming down from his mouth as well as the other blood themed posts on that thread. That was a classic.
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Lemmie wrote:Why is Bednar always stand8ng so close and getting so touchy-feely with the people he calls up? Its very uncomfortable to look at, let alone how it must feel to experience it.


Can you imagine what he was like behind closed doors with the youth giving them personal worthiness interviews?!
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